10 Reasons Why People Criticize You !!
Achieving Big is not easy. History is replete with such inspiring people whose struggle made them fall in the category of LEGENDS.
Who knows to which painful process of criticism they have gone through? Fear of being degraded and criticized always accompanied them. Still they continued. What made them continue? Friends? Family? Relatives? Fellowbeings? Companions? Or Who else??
Note one thing here ‘The first one to take you for granted are relatives, friends and family’.
Jack Ma on Sales once said:
‘When doing Sales, the first people who will trust you will be Strangers, Friends will be shielding against you, fair-weather friends will distance from you. Family will look down upon you.’
ONE THING MORE TO QUOTE HERE:
Jack Ma said,
‘When Selling to close friends and family, no matter how much you’re selling to them, they will always feel you’re earning their money, no matter how cheap you sell to them, they still wouldn’t appreciate it.’
Infact strangers Appreciate your work. Mostly people can not see you prospering. Hurdles are there. Very rarely it happens that someone from your fellowbeings plays the role of a big support for you. Like I got few ! Thank God for such lovely people in life.
TIP TO EARN SUCCESS!
Basically it is “SELF MOTIVATION” that leads you to success. You need to set goal for yourself. After you make a mindset on what you really want to achieve in life then look up for successful people in the list. Watch out their work.
Observe their lives. Difficulties they have gone through. How they handled negative criticism. Make them your Mentor. There is always a room for improvement. Seek knowledge from their experiences. Get inspiration from them. You will notice how you get groomed in this learning period.
10 reasons Why people criticize you?
Your appraisals by others may make them feel insecure of you. Their Inferiority complexes don’t just let them see you growing in your field.
To read more relating insecure people and the harm they could provide you. Do Read points here.
2. Small thinking.
Small people think small. You might be facing such people who will defame you by making unimportant things noticeable, ignoring the quality you are providing.
Every single human on this earth have this jealousy problem. Whether he or she tries not to be like that but unintentionally they tend to behave this way. It’s human nature. Nothing to worry, barriers are meant to be crossed. It’s your will power that makes you stand committedly and consistently.
4. Defeated & Unsuccessful.
When people around you lose the game and have a feeling of “Grapes are Sour“, they eventually won’t let you reach that place which they couldn’t achieve, saying “it’s impossible my friend, dont waste your quality time”. You need to smile and say one thing here. Tell him “How knowledgable he is, you did not know before” or say “Great knowledge Man” and give a WOW expression Sarcastically. LOL
5. Negative Approach.
People mostly have negative approach nowadays, may be it’s their fault of doing work half heartedly so they get half results then expected. It has made them negative rather improving their ownselves, they can’t see you flourishing.
6. More knowledgeable.
People might criticize you because of the fact that they hold more knowledge than you and want to see more improvement in your work. But such real people are very less. Just 5% of the whole universe.
7. Mindset of Competence.
Most of the time it happens that your fellowbeing strats a competition in his/her mind without any reason. They think they can do way too better and you are just a starter, a trainer and they have landed from another planet. But all in Vain actually!
A frustrated person can be really harmful. He goes out of his limits in his frustration. He can do a lot more than just criticism. He himself dont know. Stay silent in front of such cases. Let them take the pressure out of their head. Let them speak and say whatever they want to. You have nothing to do with them else a humble response.
9. Disrespectful nature.
People will victimize you by talking ill of you. By showing disrespectful gestures and humiliate you by abusive statements. But one thing to correct here ‘people are literate now they use gestures for humiliation, they know very well that words can defame their own selves’ So !! LOL
The fire of revenge makes them criticize you publically and even personally. They just cannot imagine you being successful and contended in life!
This is you who has to take everyone along even those who criticize you because its the world. You can not earn success alone. Its a team work. Even people who criticize, they hold great importance in your life as their behavior let you give your 110 percent. So be grateful to them as their hatred made you work even more passionately.
“Work until you dont have to introduce yourself.”
Keep on pondering above mentioned Quote. It’s enough to stay motivated till my next article reaches you ! 😉