11 productive tricks to stay happier with your other half ;)
What in your opinion is Marriage? Is it about love making and romance all the time? Or is it hanging out together, having candle light dinner everyday?? What is the practical meaning of marriage? Any idea?
Do u guyz want to develop a true sense of relationship that marriage demands? Or want to stay in the feeling that you have come from outside some other planet and hold hell of importance??
Should i disclose the true side of the story? Ready ?
Open your eyes ladies. It’s earth not the sky in which you are uncontrolably flying higher and higher. Come back from the myth! LOL
Its not a fairy tale in which there is a prince who is holding you and is giving you an out of world feeling. It’s about responsibilities and hardwork you put in making a house worthliving. It’s about sacrifices and patience. Compromises and struggle!
Well thats my Theory. I dont know whats yours but it needs so much from you as women to make it survive. And same amount from men afterwards but the first to take a step might be YOU!! 😉
How many of you have patience to stay quiet if you feel like losing an argument even when you’re right?
1. Develop patience:
Stop thinking that there is always a need to correct other if they are wrong. It’s not a right approach in every situation. Let him enjoy his superiority complex. Why to always oppose him and ruining your peace of mind? If he is winning an argument and feeling good about it, let him relish the moment because by the end of the day, he is going to feel really upset by making you feel lesser than him and eventually will be apologetic too! Apply this formula to your life if you are making the same mistake. You will see how life changes. Trust me it’s a life changing trick.
2. Stop giving Unwanted Opinions :
I know a lot of girls come into the relationship thinking everyone has their own perspective towards life. Everybody has power to speak out what they feel. But to make a relationship work, it’s better not to give unnecessary advices. This is my experience, when you don’t indulge yourself in his every affair, husband himself comes and asks you about your opinion in most of the matters. Because its all about giving them space and men love it. Thing is to prove your worth rather speaking all the time and losing your importance.
3. Work on your appearance:
A lot of women are lacking in this, and this is the dilemma that when it’s time for your husband to come back from work, you are badly tired, performing household and running after kids. Work on your appearance if not much just apply a cool lip color and a proper ponytail. You should not give him a feeling of an awful ugly woman.
4. Don’t talk much about how tensed the day was for you. kid teasing and other routine issues you had whole day. Resolve such issues yourself, don’t make it a headache for him. He will hate coming to you.
5. Do not take him for granted. Ask him how was his day? Listen to him. Smile and Appreciate.
6. Never let your dignity down. Dignity and self esteem is one thing but there is a fine line between Ego and Dignity. Ego finishes the relation. but hurting other self esteem ruins the whole person from inside. So do not compromise when its about your dignity. Initial days give you a bit insecure time when you think your self respect should not be hurt but as time passes, you dont give a damn! You have ugly fights and still you end up laughing at each other’s lame arguments. 😂
7. Say Thank you on little things. Atleast give him the same amount of courtesy that you give to your friends if not much. But in fact this should be the minimum criteria. Do not let the respect factor finishes. If you respect him, he will treat you very well.
8. Give him a feeling that your world is empty without him. And you need him every minute. Your possessiveness will make him feel good. Men behave like they dont want to be treated like kids but in reality they need hell lot of your time and care just like kids.
10. Be calm and polite. Sometimes you come across harsh realities in your relationship. May be an affair or nasty talks of your husband with other girl. I have read a lot of studies exposing ‘divorces’ reason being ‘husband’s affair’. Be kind. Don’t take decisions so fast. Try every possible way that can change his thoughts about you, make an effort if he still is busy in such bullshit then sorry to say, this man has this dirt in his instincts that he can’t stay away from such nasty stuff, better Leave him rather thinking what is lacking in you that made him find someone else to satisfy his need. Believe me, there is nothing in you that needs to be changed but that Asshole!! Leave him right away!!!! He doesnt deserve you or not even any good faithful girl! Compromise on anything but not this that can make you feel valueless!
P.s: In case he feels guilty, and asks for apology that makes you feel that sorry of him, then give him a chance. Let the bad feelings go. This is how you will be happy and you will make him feel the same way. Every day is a new day and you should spend it to the fullest.
11. Be kind to his family. Welcome them, love them, make delicious food for them and make them feel special. He will feel valued by you.
I always try to highlight topics which can bring some change in you as a human. Improvision is my basic genre and i hope to bring some positivity in my reader’s life. Eliminate clashes. Enjoy life. Relish the beauty of being together with your other half. Because it’s life. Unexpected and short. You don’t even know the next moment you will be alive or not. So smile and let others smile. As its the best remedy
Stay cool. Stay blessed !! 😉