8 Exclusive Ways to deal your Partner’s Bad Moods !
This would be happening to most of us that we wake up grumpy in the morning. Very rarely it happens that we wake up totally fresh. What can be the reasons behind this?
Late night sleep? Work load? Depression? More Visual stimuli usage ? Less work out ? More serious stuff to be seen on television? Or what else in your opinion??
How are these factors influencing our personal lives ? Anybody victimized of physical and mental abuse by the partner REASON being factors mentioned above?
When mind and body do not get enough time to relax, it could harm the person very close to us. Husband wife relation is so close that my article would basically go with this !
When it’s the very new beginning to the relationship or the first year of marriage, It takes some time to understand your partner’s moods. What things he hate to compromise on? What behavior can worsen his mood ? What sentence or word could make him get furious? How he would take your certain act?
And at this time of relationship, Expectations are hell high! So we need to be very particular on our words and act.
First we need to understand his nature. Some personalities are humble and kind enough to mould the severe situations into happy ones. They don’t make issue out of every tiny thing. Some are highly violent and abusive. So here you need to deeply observe your partner first.
It’s always a good practice to cool down yourself when you see your partner is angry. What further treatments should be taken is listed in the article below.
Few tacts to take him out of depression will be the main synopsis! Hope it could help you manage your partners bad moods! Enjoy
1. React opposite!
Let suppose your partner is feeling annoyed or irritable and As a result he shouts. You do not need to react the same way because it’s psychological that when one person is sad , you become sad too, seeing his depression. You have to behave Opposite. Like talk about some refreshing things and memorize good times that he loves to think about.
2. Listen without interrupting :
Even if he is wrong, be agreeable to him. Listen to his stance. Give a YES gesture. Smile and be supportive towards him. Make him cool down. After he cools down, tell him what you think in this regard because directly saying that he is wrong will make the situation bad. So it would be even wiser approach to tell him that you suggest it this way. And his perspective is not even wrong.
3. Let him pressure out:
Mostly compromises are to be done by ladies. If your partner is having severe mood swings, let him pressure out. A moment later he would feel guilty and will definitely apologize. Because its a human psychology that you cover your mistake after you feel that you were doing nonesense.
4. Repeat how much you love him:
Say I LOVE YOU over and over again. Make him realize how much importance he holds in your life. And his being upset makes you feel the same way.
5. Speak without accusing:
If you are the reason of his anger, talk to him, don’t argue. Don’t Accuse back abruptly. Accept your mistake and keep on saying the Sorry word. It would melt him. Every wife should know his husband’s melting point. As far as my relationship is concerned, my husband gets normal if I Apologize. So understand the point which makes your husband calm down in a minute.
6. Switch ON some comedy stuff :
To make the ambiance happy, ask him if he would not mind your watching a comedy movie. If he says OK, turn on. And insert the DVD which you are sure about, would make him laugh eventually. As my husband loves humor so this trick works really well for me to switch ON some funny clips or a comedy film. Some husbands do mind that he is upset and you are busy in your routine. Go with the nature of your partner.
7. Maintain distance:
Again Depending upon the nature of your partner, if he wants some space and does not want to see anybody be it YOU, maintain some distance. It does happen to some people that they want to remain alone and become more irritable on interaction. I know, you as a partner want to take all his sadness and anxiety away not just by words but whole heartedly but sometimes situation demands us to be the entirely different person than we actually are!
8. Record his sayings:
If your partner is getting just Abnormal, keep a record of his statements. Dont say anything at this very time. But when he cools down, show him how he was reacting and disrespecting. And ask him to consult a psychologist because it’s not illness but sometimes it happens that their upbringing is done this way. That they are outburst and moody.
Its not that only a mad person goes to the psychologist, a normal person do often visit them to stay healthy and wise. Assure him of your support and love him even more rather than making him feel guilty !
Same points for the husbands to follow in case they have moody wives. In such cases, men compromise. That’s why relation goes on and couples don’t drift apart. God is there to appoint us best partners. This is beyond the imagination of human the way God design ways for us. I myself have observed the fact that if wife is moody, husband is humble. On the other side, if husband is violent, wife is great enough to deal bad situations. And results come out to be perfectly awesome.