How a Perfect Bride reacts after her Wedding!
This piece of writing goes to all my dearest friends getting married just to let them learn few things to practice. As they are going to be a bride Soon.
What I learned from my Experience is,
Shyness looks good but nowadays trend has been changed. Confident and Smiling bride looks awesome, I think. But make sure you should look Stress-free for that you need to take,
- Plenty of a good sleep.
- Eat much.
- Enjoy with your friends.
- Meet with people you love to spend time with.
- Dance and have lots of fun.
I wanted to disclose few realities infront of girls. Initial days give you a tough time as you see Everyone noticing you. Pakistani culture is a Joint family system so your reactions are being counted. Follow these tips for a better impression on the new family.
1. TALK LESS.
Don’t react like you know these people from a long time. Answer what is being asked and a limited decent talk looks good on a new bride. The more openly you talk, the more they think you are clever and a sharp one who just entered their house.
2. “YES SIR” EXPRESSION.
Try to put your husband’s opinion on top, give him priority by saying “Okay” “Yes” “Jee“. Once He develops trust on you that you are a perfect match and never argue, he will give you respect and would ask you on minor matters. Even he would listen to your lame talks happily after But in start, learn to be bit cautious.
3. OPEN TO SUGGESTIONS.
As here in Pakistan, is a trend of feasts after you get married. Everybody is inviting you for dinners and lunches at their home and few on restaurants. So always welcome suggestions from your Mother-In-Law what she wants you to wear. You shouldn’t be worried on dressing at all. Your wardrobe is of your choice so whatever she says, just wear it! What is the issue?
4. ACCEPTING BEHAVIOR.
If your partner asks you for something try to say “AS YOU SAY“. What other family members say, Nod. This first Impression will never let you lose ahead in life.
5. DON’T BE TOO FAST IN JUDGING NEW FAMILY MEMBERS.
Politics come in every sphere of life be it outside of the house or Inside. I need to be very particular in selection of words with no offense. You need to be very calm and at the same time Eagle eyed, watching out what other can portray to others about you. Just don’t consider someone really good and really bad on extreme. What Apparently looks, may not be the reality!
6. DEAL WITH ISSUES WISELY.
Mostly the image of marriage that girls put in their head is a man of their dream they will live with happily ever after. Strongly Disagree!
You have to come across hell of issues which you have to face smartly and In the course of time, everything will be sort out. It takes time to adjust but with the passage of time, you gain respect in family and even a small decision can’t be made without you.
7. TRY NOT TO GET FAMILIAR TOO EARLY.
A very important thing to be kept in mind is to not to be too friendly, other’s think that you will take over their empire soon so try to keep distance and space. Don’t talk too excessively.
8. FORGET THAT YOU HAVE THE OPTION OF DIVORCE.
Take all the rubbish and self-created Ego out of your mind that you have option to get separated or live apart or get divorced as a Legal right. This psychi can create a lot of problems for you.
9. DON’T TRY TO COMPETE.
Females in the family already have given so much of their quality time, giving their services. Please don’t try to come in competition mode with them.
10. BE BROAD MINDED.
Make up your mind that the person you are marrying has not fallen from the sky directly, he has a family and you have to support him to live with them happily. If he would be more involved in his family after marrying you, it would be a bonus point for you that you don’t demand him to be all yours. His family will love you for this.
This is my friendly and honest piece of advice and little guidance to all the new brides ☺
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